The poor do not have a rich relative. When you are poor, basically a group of poor relatives will make irresponsible remarks behind you, attacking you and accusing you. Where are the rich relatives? The rich basically cannot fit into the circle of the poor, because this circle is too narrow, but they are not united, and they hurt each other. This is why some people choose to leave their hometown completely and stay away from their poor relatives when they become rich.
In the era when the gap between the rich and the poor is getting bigger and bigger, the psychological quality of many poor people is getting worse and worse, especially in some mountain villages that are neither poor nor rich, where human weaknesses are exposed. If you are rich, everyone will be jealous of you and hate you, and you will not see you well; if you are still poor, everyone will despise you and make irresponsible remarks behind your back. These places are like battlefields without gunpowder. On the surface, they are friendly, fighting secretly and stumbling. If you say that you are a little bit worse than people in such places, you will be bullied to death. Although it is said that it is fifty steps to laugh at a hundred steps, only those who have experienced it are aware of the evil of human nature.
Wealthy people cannot get along with the poor because they have gone through the evils of human nature, so the rich have no poor relatives, and even these poor relatives are of high quality. It’s not that poor people like to make irresponsible remarks behind people’s back, but uncivilized poor people like to make irresponsible remarks behind people’s backs. You can’t see that others dislike others for being poor. In many rural areas, there are many uncivilized poor people who hate others. There is no suspect, and it’s a matter of life to argue about people’s right and wrong behind their backs.
Why don’t the poor want to have a few rich relatives, but their own virtues are not good, and the rich relatives do not take them to play, so they have to play by themselves. Although the level of the rich is high, the quality of the rich is very high. If the virtues of the poor are promoted, the rich will be happy to get together with the poor. But many poor people’s thinking is stubborn and cheap. When you get along with them for a while, you will know their bad roots. When you are together, you will be good, and you will be bad at you as soon as you walk away. If you can’t hide things in your mouth, it’s easy to offend people. If you work with such a person, you might tell someone all the secrets you know about you that day. That’s fine!
Rich people become rich just because they leave their poor relatives. How can they get close to the poor relatives to make themselves poor? Although it sounds bad, this is the reality. The rich and the poor think differently, so they cannot be together. Even if they can be together, it will be bad. The success of the rich is won by their hard work, how can it be possible? Let a group of poor relatives who are stubborn and mean to ruin their success.